August 2, 2021

14 thoughts on “人生不会苦一辈子….. 爱情保卫战, 涂磊

  1. “In life, you will not suffer forever, but you will definitely suffer for a period of time. If you run away from short term sufferings, you will definitely suffer forever!


    My Donkey years of suffering seem to be over.

    Read? Donkey, Dog, and Monkey years!

  2. Was with friends and we were giving advice to another friend in his 20s about his job. His job was not the easiest but great future and lots to learn and pay was to his satisfaction. He wanted to resign.

    Cited from experience, we told him that in a job/ biz, the point when you feel most like resigning or giving up, do not resign and if you persist through, you will see rainbow eventually.

    This is provided that your co is still able to pay you salary, your boss is not picking on you everyday n prospects not zero. The rest of the problems related to colleagues and job itself is probably not the most critical.

    Unless you already succeeded, and decide to move on to next higher level.


    1. Hi Rolf

      Thank you for this post.

      I notes that you mentioned that the rest of the problems related to colleagues and job itself is not the most critical. May i ask if you can elaborate further? Work wise,I am satisifed. Pay wise, can be better but it is compensated with the work satisfaction. I persisted after I had thoughts of resigning but in the end, I resigned after a decade with the same management.

  3. Rolf,

    China got some interesting programmes!

    I like the Phoenix Satellite TV for their political and economic shows when I was in Shanghai 😉

    I always tease my Mainland Chinese friends when asked which is my favourite city in China?

    I always say it's Hong Kong.


    1. Hi SMOL,

      I agree Phoenix TV is nice also. But they talk very fast….

      China is improving now. In the 90s, I only watch one Chinese serial and that is "Monkey god" . The rest are terrible even up to 2000s and beyond.

      I will use your trick about HK as favorite city next time. Its a good one. Haha….

      Now I ask you. Which is your fav city excl. HK? LOL…..

    2. Rolf,

      This will be tough.

      If it's the most livable city, it will be hands down Xiamen. Qingdao is a close second.

      If it's wine, women, and song, it will have to be Shanghai.

      Now you know why I like HK – it has both!

      Good times 🙂

  4. Hi Rolf,

    There is another saying 吃得苦中苦,方为人上人。 So if no suffering first, then will not learn cherishing. Then may end up in eternal suffering later.


    1. Hi PIF,

      Yeah. Then again, I just ask my daughter if she want to suffer? She said NO. NO NO NO…..! Haha LOL


    2. Hee Hee,

      Those of us who are not defensive or shy about our Cheena roots are all here 🙂

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