July 30, 2021

26 thoughts on “Rolf’s 5 sets of Priorities in Life (Part 2)

  1. Rolf,

    What a roar from the heart!

    This is what Rolf stands for.

    Who you are today.

    And where you are going 😉

    1. Hi SMOL,

      I meow… Meow meow meow!

      But I know very well I am a cat not yet a lion! hahaha. But the meow is still from the heart!

      No agenda, no hiding, just myself! This is probably the biggest similarity we share judging from what I read of your writing.

      Or maybe you are not? lol

      I am not sure where I am going, cos I cannot predict the future. After plan, I just go, never procrastinate. I stumble as I go along, I learn and take another course, hoping for the best!

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  2. Hi Rolf

    I guessed most of your priorities correctly? Yeah!

    You have many good points and i can't comment on each of them because I don't want my comment to be longer than your post.

    In summary, I think we value similar priorities. We are also aware that self-awareness is the greatest strength people can have (most overlooked and underrated).

    Many points you mentioned require great discipline and passion to execute. It is a lifelong journey and you can't really measure most of these. You will know when you are there, a sense of satisfaction.

    I guess you are on the right direction but not for me to judge.

    Oh, I wish one day my child(ren) will read my blog because they enjoy it, but not as a carrot or stick, 😛

    1. Hi FD,

      Thanks for dropping by. 🙂

      You got most right bcos u have a crystal ball! haha. I only have balls. haha.
      You are right that knowing the priorities is not difficult. Just like I mentioned everyone knows health is IMPT and yet did not really take care.

      What I am trying to highlight is the Time you spend on your priorities! And for that, you need discipline. That is why for me, the experiences is more important.To have experiences you need to have exposure. It not only allow you to be aware, but add a further punch for you to action and have discipline.

      Knowing or reading, you will just forget. even writing.

      For my blog as library for my children, u will come to realize one day yourself. What is it all about, when it comes to education of your kids.

      My experiences with children (from my 10 yrs of tutoring, primary, sec and JC students) and now my own 3 children, is that they will need guidance. It is not impose but, at least to exposure them so that eventually they can better make their own decisions. Exposure is the key!

      The best way to educate a kid is to educate the educator! This is the adult! Because many times, the problem lies with the parents!

    2. Hi Rolf

      This is new to me but true. Many times, parents could be the problems. 🙂 Early childhood has great influence on character though. However, when the kids grown up, they should be responsible and it is not healthy for parents to be responsible for the adult children actions.

      Agreed that knowing is one and acting on it is another. Work work

    3. Hi FD,

      When kids grow up, they are call adult!

      Now I am starting to scratch my head. Guidance is nothing related to being responsible for your own actions.

      Previously I mentioned about the Door analogy before. 3 doors for your child to choose. As parents we are not going to open the door for them! And if one of the doors they choose happen to be big falling hole, of course they choose their own door and fall down, they be responsible to get up.

      Guess u mistaken responsibility, spoon feed in contrast to ability to educate the inner self of a person.

      Ooops.. what's Amus Yeee doing.. differing views accepted. But eventually like CW said before if u are alone, u can wear same underwear only for 5 days in ur home and nobody is going to bother u.

  3. really nice article on our priorities in life.
    I really like the point about getting the kids to read some of the articles, Once we need to communicate to kids we become more clearer in our thoughts and sometimes they enlighten us with there innocence.

    1. Hi GP,

      You are right. It makes me clearer in my thoughts in communication. End of the day, it's difficult to explain my elder daughter but it somehow give a platform for me to communicate with her. And it's a platform where she feedback to me. And that is important. It's about communication and time spent!

  4. Hi Rolf,

    I always ask people what they want to do when they retire but not many have an answer. They just want to rest and relax but they have never thought that having so much free time will make people go bonkers too! Even myself, I don't know what I can do if I retire… can't keep travelling what… haha.

    1. Hi Jes,

      Great to see you are enjoying your travel and keep exposing yourself. It is a good experience esp at a budding stage of career.

      Aside from relax, chit chat, leisure travel which I love to do myself and will definitely do, we need to be engaged in a particular thing that stimulate our mind.

      Speaking from experiences of people around me, and this intriguing thing that stimulate your mind will make you really happy and in fact look and stay young. I am a vain man, I love to stay and look younger than my age! hahah sure u so also?

      If we still in question mark now wat to do when retire, it's ok, keep searching and don't settle until u found it.

      My motto still apply. the only way, u can find what u really like to do, is by truly finding the true YOURSELF first… then next…

  5. Hi Rolf,

    Enjoyed your 2H3Fs. That's a nice way to remember!

    Ah, I know you don't support early retirement. How about early semi-retirement? A 15 hour work week? 🙂

    1. Hi 15HWW,

      Thanks. I always have a strong connection with you, hence I m gg to be long winded.

      I hate reading when I was a kid, I love it now. I hate seeing my wife blog few yrs ago, now I blog. I use to believe in full devotion in work to achieve ultimate success, now I don't. U may sometimes even marry the person u use to dislike, until you discover her beauty.

      It is not fickle minded, but Perspectives changed when u r at diff stages of lives, or when u gather more life experiences. It is impossible to visualize at that point of time for me. And it's also not impt for me to realize then as it is part of going thru stages in life.

      If u still think the same 20yrs later as today, then u have a big problem.

      U mistaken me, I supported 15HWW, if it is sustainable by all means – first criteria. Then enjoy it for a long long time – second criteria. I am sure u know what u want, this I have utmost respect.

      I believe everyone exist in this world for the sake of contributing. Maybe I am wrong. We work to contribute to society. If u work less, prefer to write or teach people, u still contribute. u do charity at old folk homes, u contribute. Housewife or house-husband, u contribute. End of the day, living life sometimes or eventually is about how much u contribute to not only yourself!

      We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give …Winston Churchill.

  6. Hi Rolf,

    Very meaningful post. For a moment I thought you share your chemical composition when I read H2F3.

    Your H2F3 is very comprehensive. I admire you for your ability to separate work from non-work so strictly. I was never that good at it.

    Adding to "Everything happens for a reason" and staying with deep science, this quote comes to my mind: “Everything is the way it is because it got that way.” – D’Arcy Wentworth Thompson
    And each of us has the ability to define and create that way.

    1. Hi Andy,

      Ah… I wanted for a moment to stop writing this post, since FD sort of guess the priorities!

      Then Eureka! Yes u r right. I created this new chemical compound n decide to share.

      I was never good at separating work n non-work for my entire career! It was always work work work! Until recent yrs I start to think back of all the experiences, I started to realize….

      It's just different stages of life, I guess.

      Wow.. I love your way! But i m gg to create my own way different from u! Haha

  7. First time commenting,

    I am thoroughly impressed and enjoyed this post.

    I find the concept "moderation" is one of the key point in your philosophy. Doing anything excessive or extreme is always counter productive. Your H2F3 method is well balanced and will lead to a more fulfilling life if practice well.

    1. Hi Solace,

      Thanks for the virgin comment. 🙂

      Indeed, u r really sharp! Moderation… an easy word, which sometimes forgotten by many.

      Hope you achieve your very own H2F3 moderation too!

  8. Hello everyone,

    My name is Courtney Bieneman and am talking as the happiest person in the whole wide world today and i told my self that any lender that rescue my family from our poor situation, i will tell the name to the whole wild world and i am so happy to say that my family is back for good because i was in need of $186,000.00 USD loan to start my life all over as i am a single mum with 2 kids and the whole world seemed like it was hanging on me until i met this GOD sent loan lender that changed my life and that of my family, a GOD fearing lender, Mr Mason Diego, he was the Savior GOD sent to rescue my family and at first i thought it was not going to be possible until i received my loan of $186,000.00 USD from him; so am advising anyone of you genuinely in need of loan to contact Mr. Mason Diego via email: ( diegoloancompany@yahoo.com ) or reach him through the company website: http://diegoloancompany.wix.com/loans for a quick and secure loan.

  9. HOW I GOT MY LOAN FROM FABIAN LOAN COMPANY{fabianloanfirm@yahoo.com}
    Hi,
    I am Anna Ruben from United state of America, i stayed in Alabama, and i have a broke up business, until i found this company email who help me to gain a loan for business and now i want to used this short medium to thank the company for the fast and safe money they loan to me without any form of issue or delay, i loan 98,000.00USD form the company to save my business and lots more, i saw their mail on the internet, everyone always give testimony for what they did, so i quickly contacted them and they did everything for me without stress and my money was sent to my account 24hrs later, i was surprise and feel glad, now i now have a standard business control agent who help me and i will advice those who need urgent loan to contact them at [fabianloanfirm@yahoo.com] or cal him on his cell (347)707-8926 , he is a Good man and I know that he will help you immediately.

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