This article continues from previous post (refer here) where I discussed how to stay financially and
mentally resilient during a crisis resulting in a retrenchment. The
discussion apparently did not include the type of resilience such as acquisition
of work skill-sets which can easily be transited from one company/ industry to
another.
mentally resilient during a crisis resulting in a retrenchment. The
discussion apparently did not include the type of resilience such as acquisition
of work skill-sets which can easily be transited from one company/ industry to
another.
Why retrenchment can
happen to any employed person?
happen to any employed person?
Some people say “Oh retrenchment will not happen to
me, because I have a stable job…Oh I am young, can find another job easily…Oh,
I am highly valuable to my company…Oh my boss like me…Oh I am in civil
service!” It can be true NOW, but certainly not throughout your entire
working life.
me, because I have a stable job…Oh I am young, can find another job easily…Oh,
I am highly valuable to my company…Oh my boss like me…Oh I am in civil
service!” It can be true NOW, but certainly not throughout your entire
working life.
Is it a big deal that we are young now? No! I am
still young also, but everyone grows old one day with more burdens on our
shoulders from family expenses. Even when you are frugal, but living in the
inflationary Lion city is going to be tough.
still young also, but everyone grows old one day with more burdens on our
shoulders from family expenses. Even when you are frugal, but living in the
inflationary Lion city is going to be tough.
If you think you are really valuable to your
company, sometimes the ugly truth is because you are still “cheap” in salary.
Your salary may go up one day and you can become an eye sore during a crisis
too. Okay…you win! You prefer to be lowly paid! Counter-intuitively, lowly paid
does not always mean you are on the safe side. Due to change of corporate structure,
you can be made redundant by the highly-paid bosses too. The most junior staffs
in my office were the first to be let go during this crisis.
company, sometimes the ugly truth is because you are still “cheap” in salary.
Your salary may go up one day and you can become an eye sore during a crisis
too. Okay…you win! You prefer to be lowly paid! Counter-intuitively, lowly paid
does not always mean you are on the safe side. Due to change of corporate structure,
you can be made redundant by the highly-paid bosses too. The most junior staffs
in my office were the first to be let go during this crisis.
Your boss likes you now, but your boss can change
before you realise. For some reason, your new boss may loathe you. Even when
your boss is owner of the company, he can sell the business to a new owner.
This happened to me a few times.
before you realise. For some reason, your new boss may loathe you. Even when
your boss is owner of the company, he can sell the business to a new owner.
This happened to me a few times.
Perhaps the only exception is probably when you are
working in a civil service and has an “iron rice bowl”, so as to speak. Yet,
how many in the civil service really enjoy their job? Honestly, civil service
tends to provide more opportunity to “scholars” and for “farmers” the path of
climbing is really long and gradual, which also mean lesser exposures and lower
salary comparatively.
working in a civil service and has an “iron rice bowl”, so as to speak. Yet,
how many in the civil service really enjoy their job? Honestly, civil service
tends to provide more opportunity to “scholars” and for “farmers” the path of
climbing is really long and gradual, which also mean lesser exposures and lower
salary comparatively.
With all aforesaid, it is of grave importance to be
financially and mentally prepared for a downturn, even if chances are slim for
you to be “slashed”. Those who follow my blog will know that I had long prepared
for this impending crisis, not just limited to my industry of O&G, but also
extends to the general economy as a whole.
financially and mentally prepared for a downturn, even if chances are slim for
you to be “slashed”. Those who follow my blog will know that I had long prepared
for this impending crisis, not just limited to my industry of O&G, but also
extends to the general economy as a whole.
I already considered myself to be lucky up to now
that I am still surviving with a comfortable income with manageable stress in
my job. Many in similar category as me either already left or is so stressful
and unhappy about work now. Maybe it
boils down to this…Read: Oil & Gas Crisis – Time to
Take On More Work Even with No Pay Raise!
that I am still surviving with a comfortable income with manageable stress in
my job. Many in similar category as me either already left or is so stressful
and unhappy about work now. Maybe it
boils down to this…Read: Oil & Gas Crisis – Time to
Take On More Work Even with No Pay Raise!
Anyway, if the unfortunate do
take place on me, what would I really do next?
take place on me, what would I really do next?
Have a peaceful mind! Do
not rush into the next job desperately
not rush into the next job desperately
No matter how well prepared we are, when an
ill-fated dismissal actually falls upon us, emotion is bound to be stirred and
feeling sad is inevitable. In situation like this, our mind is definitely
not in the clearest state to make good decision. Hence, the need to have a
peaceful mind before making the next decision is extremely important.
ill-fated dismissal actually falls upon us, emotion is bound to be stirred and
feeling sad is inevitable. In situation like this, our mind is definitely
not in the clearest state to make good decision. Hence, the need to have a
peaceful mind before making the next decision is extremely important.
I am suggesting to myself NEVER to rush into the
next available full-time employed job desperately. In any case, since the Oil
and Gas industry is so bad now, rushing from one job to another can also mean jumping
from one shit to another!
next available full-time employed job desperately. In any case, since the Oil
and Gas industry is so bad now, rushing from one job to another can also mean jumping
from one shit to another!
The worst thing you want is to get into a new job
and then get retrench within few months again. I already saw many friends
entering into this kind of shitty situation now, and they are really
unhappy!
and then get retrench within few months again. I already saw many friends
entering into this kind of shitty situation now, and they are really
unhappy!
Take a well-deserved
break
break
Ideally, go sabbatical for 6 months or more
including the few months’ notice period and balance annual leave. Do NOT even
search for ads on job during the first 3-4 months at least. I will try to enjoy
this period on things that I could possibly miss out in my life due to work.
including the few months’ notice period and balance annual leave. Do NOT even
search for ads on job during the first 3-4 months at least. I will try to enjoy
this period on things that I could possibly miss out in my life due to work.
Spend time with my kids
Priority number one for me – more time with my
kids. You simply cannot turn back the clock when they grow up later. That said,
I will not be just a stay-home dad doing household chores and become a nanny to
my kids! By the way, I hate doing these chores. I prefer to be a Father, a
Friend and a Mentor! While I am already my children’s part-time tuition teacher
outside textbooks, I endeavour to do more with a more structured way of
teaching for them. Of course, I will exercise and play with them, such as swimming,
jogging and do art and craft with them. Whatever it is, the thing that matters
most is to spend more time with them during this period.
kids. You simply cannot turn back the clock when they grow up later. That said,
I will not be just a stay-home dad doing household chores and become a nanny to
my kids! By the way, I hate doing these chores. I prefer to be a Father, a
Friend and a Mentor! While I am already my children’s part-time tuition teacher
outside textbooks, I endeavour to do more with a more structured way of
teaching for them. Of course, I will exercise and play with them, such as swimming,
jogging and do art and craft with them. Whatever it is, the thing that matters
most is to spend more time with them during this period.
Paintings by my 5-year-old and me!
Freelance Options
Option A
Through referral, I actually started writing
freelance for the O&G sector last year. I had since stopped due to my busy
schedule lately. If the “brutal axe slashes”, I will like to continue.
freelance for the O&G sector last year. I had since stopped due to my busy
schedule lately. If the “brutal axe slashes”, I will like to continue.
Option B
A friend of mine is the founder of his tech
start-up business with vested interest from VC. This friend is an IT guru, but
never really a sales and marketing guy. Last year he approached me if I am
willing to help him strengthened this area. I declined due to my work
commitment. Perhaps if I am made redundant, I will look into this option.
start-up business with vested interest from VC. This friend is an IT guru, but
never really a sales and marketing guy. Last year he approached me if I am
willing to help him strengthened this area. I declined due to my work
commitment. Perhaps if I am made redundant, I will look into this option.
Option C
Another friend of mine is leading his family
business in the sector which I am extremely familiar with. Many times, he had
hinted to me how desperately he needed a trusted person to assist him since he
is unable to cope. So this is another viable option.
business in the sector which I am extremely familiar with. Many times, he had
hinted to me how desperately he needed a trusted person to assist him since he
is unable to cope. So this is another viable option.
For options B,C &D, I will only consider if it
is freelance and definitely not within the first 3-4 months as I wanted to have
a well-deserved break. Furthermore, I
will not ask for high salary or probably even only ask for some transport allowances
or commission based job. First, I do not want the unnecessary stress to achieve
unrealistic good performance in a highly challenging environment now. Second, I
want conflict with “friends” to be mitigated to bare minimum. Ideally, it
should be treated as helping friends out, rather than them giving me a helping
hand.
is freelance and definitely not within the first 3-4 months as I wanted to have
a well-deserved break. Furthermore, I
will not ask for high salary or probably even only ask for some transport allowances
or commission based job. First, I do not want the unnecessary stress to achieve
unrealistic good performance in a highly challenging environment now. Second, I
want conflict with “friends” to be mitigated to bare minimum. Ideally, it
should be treated as helping friends out, rather than them giving me a helping
hand.
Option D
Helping in my sister’s business. This is least
likely to happen unless I am really desperate. Working for siblings is never
easy.
likely to happen unless I am really desperate. Working for siblings is never
easy.
Self-improvement – read more books and attend more
courses
courses
Time is something I lack to read as many books as I
wanted lately. My usual book reading onboard airplane is cut down by lesser
traveling due to the diminished projects and cost cutting measures.
wanted lately. My usual book reading onboard airplane is cut down by lesser
traveling due to the diminished projects and cost cutting measures.
To do well in life, I strongly believe we will need
a WISE mentor to guide us along the way. If fate does not bring you one, do not
fret over it. This is because reading simply can be the best way to substitute
your real life mentor. After all, a good book can enrich us with almost a
lifetime worth of invaluable experiences from the author.
a WISE mentor to guide us along the way. If fate does not bring you one, do not
fret over it. This is because reading simply can be the best way to substitute
your real life mentor. After all, a good book can enrich us with almost a
lifetime worth of invaluable experiences from the author.
When it comes to reading, do not mistaken reading
of newspapers, articles, magazines etc as similar to reading a book. The former
provides more information rather than the much needed wisdom from a book. Anyway,
people nowadays have definitely no lack of information compared to wisdom! Words
are essentially one of the main building blocks of life. Our future depends on
the words we believe about ourself now, whether read, listen, written or
spoken. So if time is granted, I will definitely read more books for
self-improvement.
of newspapers, articles, magazines etc as similar to reading a book. The former
provides more information rather than the much needed wisdom from a book. Anyway,
people nowadays have definitely no lack of information compared to wisdom! Words
are essentially one of the main building blocks of life. Our future depends on
the words we believe about ourself now, whether read, listen, written or
spoken. So if time is granted, I will definitely read more books for
self-improvement.
To add variety to learning, attending courses can
be great as it allows “live” interaction with people that a book cannot
provide. Just have to take note of the charges!
be great as it allows “live” interaction with people that a book cannot
provide. Just have to take note of the charges!
Compile my own “Gift” for my children
Inspired by legendary investor Jim Roger’s book :
“A Gift to My Children – A Father’s Lessons for Life and Investing”, I will
want to publish my own book for my children one day. This is also one of the
reasons why I started this blog. So perhaps retrenchment will come in handy for
me to start compiling my past articles. Read:
“A Gift to My Children – A Father’s Lessons for Life and Investing”, I will
want to publish my own book for my children one day. This is also one of the
reasons why I started this blog. So perhaps retrenchment will come in handy for
me to start compiling my past articles. Read:
Investments
Keeping myself abreast of investment is something I
will definitely do with or without a crisis. Yet, we should bear in mind
that staying too fixated on the stock market and making lots of investments
during your sabbatical is also not as wise. So take it easy and be patient
and discipline in our investment activities even if we have all the time at
home from not needing to go to work. The
last thing we want is to deplete our still healthy cash position fast and feel
pressured to go back to work soon!
will definitely do with or without a crisis. Yet, we should bear in mind
that staying too fixated on the stock market and making lots of investments
during your sabbatical is also not as wise. So take it easy and be patient
and discipline in our investment activities even if we have all the time at
home from not needing to go to work. The
last thing we want is to deplete our still healthy cash position fast and feel
pressured to go back to work soon!
Six Packs
Finally six packs! A challenging one indeed. This
is something that I had never have in my entire life despite that I had always
been a sporty person.
is something that I had never have in my entire life despite that I had always
been a sporty person.