July 27, 2021

24 thoughts on “Crisis? We should be happy because it is the best time to learn!

  1. Geez Rolf, your writing motivate me to write part 4 …

    He has made everything beautiful in its time. – Ecclesiates 3:11a

  2. Hi Yaruzi,

    Happy new year! 😀
    Looking fwd to ur part 4….

    I am not a Christian, but somehow I find out that what I learnt/believe in life is exactly similar to biblical teachings. I felt amazed!

    Interestingly, I was told by someone I respect that God created everybody w/o illness in the purest form. The illness we had, is a fear imposed by satan to test ur faith. Worry and fear created by satan is the main cause of many of the illnesses n then death painfully!

    As long as u stay 100% faithful in God, and believe all humans r created w/o illness, even the minute just before u r almost dead, u ll be miraculously recovered.

    I had read a book many yrs ago while in the hospital and inside are all the testimonies of miraculous healings! True story of people I know and Remarkable!

    Hope this short comment is helpful to u.

  3. Hi Rolf

    So many crisis in your life. I am sure it made you a better person now with much higher self awareness. Bravo. Lot of things you can impart to the society.

    Having said the above, please avoid "unnecessary" crisis from now on. haha. For example, you don't need to get hit by a train to know it is fatal.

    I hope we can all use opportunities to improve our health (physical, financial, family) and live our fullest before we say bye bye.

    1. Hi FD,

      Frankly, I have not include the many accidents I had, which I was admitted to hospital a few times having stiches on head, chin and injuries on my legs and hands. And also several car accidents, of which I encountered one which involved police and ambulance, causing hours of jam in the expressway.

      Hahaha….ok enough of all the crises. You know that is not my point of this article. It is just an encouragement to stay mentally strong and positive during our low period.

      I promise not to add unnecessary crisis and definitely will not get knock by the train. But you must promise not to be so Frugal! And its still Lunar New year, how can you use the phrase “before we say bye bye!” Haha….

    2. Friend, Frugal is a good thing. Being cheap is not. Must know the difference. Haha. I am ok la, because my wife will always bring up my lifestyle. I am very contended with my lifestyle, as mentioned. I don't really think I am suffering to save money. In fact, I can save more. 😛

      Talking about frugal, I don't mind to be spendthrift by spending 2 millions dollar on a landed property at the desired place, but no money leh. So, continue to lead my satisfied middle class lifestyle.

    3. Ok lar.. I get it… difference of frugal and cheap is just a thin line apart.

      Happy jump, tired sit, sleepy sleep. This part I like that SMOL philosophy of taking things easy.

      lucky u to have a good wife. I am asking my wife to read now! 🙂

      2 mil can only buy some cheap n old 2 storey landed that is not FH… So not enuff Leh! haha

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  4. Rolf,

    Steel gets stronger under hammer and anvil 😉

    A lot of people don't like to share what they have "paid" for success.

    Your path too difficult 🙁

    Most people would prefer the marry rich or buy Toto path 😉

    P.S. Your recent "peeling the onion" posts are very interesting. Enjoyable read!

    1. Hi Jared,

      I cannot withstand the hammer and anvil lar, because I am not man of steel. You or fisherman probably can! LOL!

      Please don’t get me wrong, I am not complaining of my difficult path. I am actually happy things happened, so to be more appreciative and humble.

      Of course, I don’t mind a rich wife or strike Toto, but if I am not destined to it, I also cannot keep daydreaming or fret over it.

      Ok next post I scatter “laughing powder”. Peel onion too sad! Haha.

  5. Parts of extract
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    Chinese character wei 危
    Chinese character wēi

    Chinese character ji1 in simplified form 机
    Chinese character jī (in simplified form)
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    The third, and fatal, misapprehension is the author's definition of jī as “opportunity.” While it is true that wēijī does indeed mean “crisis” and that the wēi syllable of wēijī does convey the notion of “danger,” the jī syllable of wēijī most definitely does not signify “opportunity.” Webster's Ninth New Collegiate Dictionary defines “opportunity” as:

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    Finally, to those who would persist in disseminating the potentially perilous, fundamentally fallacious theory that “crisis” = “danger” + “opportunity,” please don't blame it on Chinese!

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    This essay is by Victor H. Mair, professor of Chinese language and literature at the University of Pennsylvania, with contributions from Denis Mair and Zhang Liqing. © Victor H. Mair.

    Hi Rolf,
    Some rare people prosper better in time of war(danger) than in time of peace
    i believe you are one of them.
    Nevertheless it is also very true if you are prepared no matter how dangerous the situation is , you will most probably survive.

    The bonus is you will become a better person.
    And the next crisis comes (next market crash), so what man?
    Not that we like crisis but life can throw a screwed ball at us, when we are least expecting it.

    i think you will do very well finally in the Stock Market from your mental strength you show in your writings.

    Who am i to judge and say so?
    But it is just my strong opinion of your mental strength.
    Remember you wrote about how important the mental strength of a person in order to succeed in life?
    Shalom.

    1. Hi temperament,

      Thanks for the extract. It is so interesting to know more and about this Dr Victor H Mair’s fanatics on Chinese language. Ok CRISIS is bad, nod nod nod….. both “head and heart!” 

      Like you said,
      – Before a crisis, be prepared
      – During a crisis, take appropriate action and stop losing sleep or losing yourself.
      – After a crisis, forge the right mindset and learn from it to emerge strong next time.

      To receive compliment from an experienced and wise “Qian Bei”, this is the best bonus or ang pow I received this year. 感激不敬!

      Thank you and may peace be always with you and your family. God bless!

    1. In a crisis of stock market crash, only the shorting traders make money.
      On the other hand if shortists short too much, they may be killed by a short squeez.
      The rest of us just wait for the desert sand storm to pass.
      If you are forced to sell, then most probably there is something wrong somewhere in the first place.
      Need to do more thinking before you put your money in the market, the next round.

      Maybe you still have capital, you can pyramid down all the way provided if you are prepared to catch the falling knife.
      And you have the patience to wait till the durian falls after catching the falling knife.

    2. Hi EH,

      Lose money of course sad! But bo bian leh… the 21st century is more and more unpredictable, hence sometimes just need to inject some "mental reassurance", so that next round come back stronger!

      Hi temperament,

      Can diamond strategy work instead of pyramid?

    3. Hi Temperament,

      Diamond shape in poker card = top and bottom narrow, mid section fat? combination of 2D pyramid down and up!

      Diamond hardest element than pyramid = strong portfolio that can weather the storm in either ways!

      Multiple facets = flexible when situation changes!

      Can even reflect light = reflect mistakes and life?

      U heard about Charlotte Ehinger Schwarz diamond? More than a century facets. I bought it as proposal ring for my wife. Small in carat size but so pretty!

      ok I start to talk rot! 😀

    4. Ha! Ha!
      Your imaginations are really powerful.
      Of course we pyramid down then pyramid up Ma.
      And your Wife is really fortunate for your imagination, err…i mean diamond.

    5. small small Damond for her only 0.25c nia. She complained now liao, why so small!

      I am unfortunate now! Initially thought one price depreciate over a lifetime of marriage (assuming all smooth smooth). Now possible to be two prices!

  6. Hi Rolf

    By the time I finish reading your whole story and what you've gone through, suddenly I don't feel there is crisis in the world right now, at least not yet.

    You certainly gone through a lot in your life and while some things are difficult, you made the best out of the situation and came back stronger.

    Kudos to you and you will have no problem mentally on going through this round either.

    1. Hi B,

      Thanks for the compliment and I am sure you have the right mindset and mental to go through crisis as well. You stand out the most among all who is chasing for FFF! Ooops…. FD on par too!

      Speaking of going through a lot, I just watched on TV, a serial about Bryan Wong getting a taste of work in Indiak. There the Indians work 16hours a day just to earn S$2 doing laundry manually. The one who iron clothes works 365 days a year, without any rest day. If he rest, he will not get paid for the month. Even if he is sick, he has to work.

      Given our good life today and after managing India/Indonesia for a couple of years, I always think every person in their lifetime really ought to go India or Africa at least once to see what tough life is all about.

      I agree it is far from crisis now. I wrote in one of my previous post about my younger colleagues being retrenched, and on their last day, I gave no talk/advice. This is because I prefer to say what is necessary before the actual crisis arrived. So you can see so many of my recent posts on crisis…. Haha….

  7. This a great post. Thank you for sharing. I hope to see the day when we all can look back at this period and say that we learnt something important with no regrets.

    1. Hi Apenquotes,

      Thanks for dropping by and the compliment.

      Losing money unexpectedly and going through pain now is undoubtedly sad. We r only human so pls cry over it.

      But how fast we get over it and the ability to admit the mistake and learn the next time, DIVIDES mediocre and the great.
      留得青山在,不怕没柴烧!

      Like u say, no regrets and learnt. What we lose today, we promise ourselves to win back more going ahead.

  8. How I Got My Loan From A Genuine And Reliable Loan Company (Lexieloanfinance@gmail.com)!!!

    My Name is Nicole Marie, I live in USA and life is worth living comfortably for me and my family now and i really have never seen goodness shown to me this much in my life, As i am a struggling mum with two kids and i have been going through a serious problem as my husband encountered a terrible accident last two weeks, and the doctors states that he needs to undergo a delicate surgery for him to be able to walk again and i could not afford the bill for his surgery then i went to the bank for a loan and they turn me down stating that i have no credit card, from there i ran to my father and he was not able to help me, then when i was browsing through yahoo answers and i came across a God fearing man (Mr Martinez Lexie) who provides loans at an affordable interest rate and i have been hearing about so many scams on the Internet mostly Africa, but at this my desperate situation, i had no choice than to give it an attempt due to the fact that the company is from United State of America, and surprisingly it was all like a dream, i received a loan of $82,000.00 USD and i payed for my husband surgery and thank GOD today he is ok and can walk, my family is happy and i said to myself that i will shout to the world the wonders this great and God fearing Man Mr Martinez Lexie did for me and my family; so if anyone is in genuine and serious need of a loan do contact this GOD fearing man via Email: Lexieloanfinance@gmail.com or ( Lexieloancompany@yahoo.com ) or immediately reach him through text Tel: +1 (406) 946-0675 thanks

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